Saturday, 31 March 2018

12 Things An Adult Will Face If He Or She Has Been A Victim Of Child Abuse

Childhood is the best time in someone’s life. It’s imperative to be careful about your child. To see if they are getting the right environment to grow up in. But what if they are not? A bad childhood can have some consequences on your kid’s adult self. In today’s society, most of the kids are a victim of child abuse. We hardly talk about child abuse and rarely come across any victim of child abuse. But that’s not true. 8 out of 10 kids are a victim of this. As our society fail to understand this grave issue, here are the things that the victim of child abuse face as an adult. And, this is why you should become more concerned.

1. Asking questions

A victim of child abuse asks questions even when things are known to him/her. They are exposed to continuous criticism and that’s why their adult self-has become this self-criticizing.



2. Repeated sorry
One of the things that a victim of child abuse face as an adult is saying sorry for everything and nothing. They have a tendency of self-criticism and that’s why they apologize even when they haven’t done anything wrong.


3. Self-doubt
With the above-said things, isn’t this one obvious? A victim of child abuse goes through too much trauma and their childhood is a total chaos. No wonder their adult self also turns out disturbed.



4. Extremely sensitive
As a victim of child abuse has already seen too many bad things around him/her, by the time they become an adult, they grow way too much sensitive. See how things in your early stage can screw up your adult life.


5. Doubting others
Doubt and these people go hand in hand. With such a terrible childhood, they become really skeptic as an adult. They don’t trust anybody easily.


6. Too much conscious of things
A victim of child abuse finds it hard to trust anything easily. They are always conscious and living under the impression that something might happen.


7. Introvert
Among the other things, a victim of child abuse is introvert by nature. As they find it difficult to trust people, as an adult, they form a cocoon around them and like living in it (not literally).


8. Sensitive to noise
As these people grew up in fear, they become sensitive to loud noises. These things happen because they associate loud noises with yelling.



9. Attachment issues
Among other things, as an adult, these people face attachment issues. They are scared of people abandoning them.


10. Can’t get close to someone
They take time to get close. Physically as well as emotionally. Things just don’t work out for them. This has to be there with the other problems.



11. Can’t take compliments
As these people don’t trust anybody easily, they don’t trust someone’s compliment too. They always doubt the compliments.


12. Self-harming
As these people loathe themselves because of all the abuse they have faced, as an adult, they become self-harming. As they have been a victim of pain, they feel as if they deserve the pain.




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